How to Have a Fun Solo Girl’s Night Out with yourself in 7 steps or less

1. Make a list of 10 wants for how you want to feel about the night. What kind of things would you like to do? How would you want the atmosphere, energetic or more mellow? And use this first affirmation to get started: “Tonight I’m going to have a lot of fun!”

Write it on a note card.

I want to have a lot of fun tonight; I want to feel happy and alive! I want to feel excited, I want to watch fun shows, draw something cool to hang on the wall, hang out with a cool friend for an hour, treat myself to Starbucks, and to my favorite delicious food! I want to learn something and find interesting information or stimulating conversation! I want to dress comfortably while looking fabulous and pamper myself by doing my nails, toes, and really take time to enjoy myself. 2. Re-write the list by taking out the “I want” and rewriting in the present tense as if it was actually happening. I am having a lot of fun tonight, I am feeling happy and alive! I am excited! Watching fun shows while I draw something cool for the wall, drinking a Starbucks with my cool friend for an hour, and my favorite delicious food! I am learning interesting and amazing things from the great conversations I have! I am dressed comfortably, and still look fabulous! My nails and toes look bright and fresh and I am really enjoying myself! 3. Read the list to yourself 5 times. Now write down a list of everything that strikes you as the most fun and rewrite your list from most fun to least. 4. Organize everything you need for the list. If you need to pick up food, take the time to go out beforehand or find out the info for the restaurant you’re going to. 5. While you’re organizing everything, continue to repeat your new affirmation: “I am having a lot of fun!” 6. Keep brainstorming fun things to do for your solo Girl’s Night Out! And keep adding them to the list until your evening is full or keep going for the next time!